Thoughts Around My Birthday

Grace, it has been said, means that God understands. And He does. He understands that life has a way of robbing our innocent belief that we can take the good parts for granted. We have serious concerns; we have aches and pains and problems that can rob our joy, if we let that happen. But with the temptation to be cynical and bitter comes a promised way of escape, a gracing that helps us see the best and chill out about the rest. It’s a choice.


What if, instead, we choose to let every candle on every birthday cake remind us of the added light of wisdom that grace brings? Why not toss a handful of confetti all over the living room in gratitude for the knowledge that every little bad thing doesn’t mean the world is ending, and every little wonder — a baby’s laugh, a box of dark chocolate malt balls, a shared moment of insight — can now be more fully experienced and appreciated?

I had the opportunity to have a fantastic birthday celebration on Monday. 75 of my friends, a brewers game, beautiful day- and all taking place on Memorial Day, which is special enough in itself. I enjoyed the day immensely. Talking with all my friends, some that I had not seen in a long time, and some that I did not even know were coming. Each of them brought a smile to my face throughout the day, most multiple times. I love them, the feeling is mutual, overall a great day.

However, I want to definitely add some were not there, they were missed, I wished they could be there...and some I even talked to on the phone while at the game. It was during that moment, in one conversation in particular that I started thinking about how important those relationships are, how much I care about them all, and where they all fit into my life. In my one conversation, my mood went from happy to overjoyed. Why? Because I was excited to hear from them. Because I knew they couldn't be a part of my day, but this was the closest it was going to get, and it was good enough for me. I've learned lately to appreciate the little things. A smile, a laugh, a certain tone in someone's voice. Little things that bring a smile to your face just because they are the ones in your life that you love.

The day wasn't special because of the food, drinks, or mass amounts of people. It was special to me because I saw each and every one of my friends having an amazing time. For a few hours I got to see them all interacting, meeting new people, and enjoying a beautiful day. So to those of you who made it, thank you for a special day...to those of you who couldn't you made and make me smile anyways, and I'm completely grateful for each and every one of you.